type

Last year I wrote a piece about my "types"

And its still not,

set in stone

But what I can say

Is if you have pain,

A place where the world has sucker punched you

Left you with a chipped tooth

and a crooked smile

If you can smirk at your own disaster

because there's nothing more beautiful

than the ability to rebuild.

Than I already love you

all of you.

I have loved women with sirens in their voices.

Who have wrapped their insides

In barbed wire

stood up straight and smiled a wicked smile.

And late at night

Or mid afternoon

You can see

The spots where that wire comes through

And maybe they'll let me in

And maybe they won't

But I loved them all the same.

Like a sucker with a puppy for a heart

He can't help his nature,

He's going to chase you

And like skinned knees,

Its probably gonna hurt.

Its the nature of things.

Or to the soldier who came back

with another armies metal in his legs,

But still had the strength to tell me

He's probably more queer

Than anybody knows.

And to say that was scarier

Than any war zone he'd ever seen.

I've never been afraid of the dark,public speaking or confrontation
I've walked through some of the worst neighborhoods in the country,unarmed and unafraid.
I'd gladly put myself in danger on a daily basis for a paycheck.

What am I afraid of? Not being enough.

You're favorite fruit is avocado

Just because a feeling has passed,
Doesn't change the ache in the deeper muscles of my chest.
Its like when I finally exhaled that final breath of you
A sigh of relief that cracked a rib or two.
A mark on my own bones
The way to tell I have breathed out the loss of you.

And I can't tell what hurts more
knowing that I'm there still, inked on your back
Or knowing that you have erased me from every other surface

I would have moved mountains to remain
Just, near enough to still hear the echoes of your songs, in the body of your guitar.
And though we were young, and making mistakes faster than we made friends
I still would not remove you.
I still feel as protective of you,
As the day I first called you my cub
A name, and title that ironically you still carry around.

You have erased our adventure
and who you are becoming is someone I don't recognize
Or respect,
but,
I still hold a tiny place inside of this temple
And send you love and light
Every time you float across my memory
Even though it pains me.

travel well, I hope sincerely that you find what you are looking for.

Perfect Gesture

The air was heavy and fragrant.
The sound of distant lawnmowers chugged along through the neighborhood.
People gathered in front yards, sweating beers clenched in their fists.
It was
Late September, small town

I knocked once.
Bite my thumbnail off in a flourish.
Knock again.

Footfalls
Reach threshold in record time.
And there, she stands.
Cigarette hanging from her mouth like cancerous punctuation
And
I swear the grin that spilled across her face could kill a man.
And if she had paused, removed her cigarette from her mouth
And asked
I would have cut out my own heart
For the sheer guilty pleasure of offering it to her.

Instead she hid her Cheshire grin and waved me inside.
She grabbed a crystal ashtray, and continued smoking as she sat
Cross legged on the coffee table six inches across from me.
And then the shift in the disguise. The persona softened, and what followed was Friendly, affable conversation…Recalling our shared childhood. Our current definition of faith, exotic places we wanted to travel.

She seemed- at the time the ancient age of almost 27, eons from where I was sitting. A roughed up kid that through medical miracles and sheer dumb luck had managed to survive being a loud mouthed heathen in a jesus lovin town. That’s the first thing we had in common.

She had already been to other countries, posed naked for more than one photo shoot and had a growing collection of tattoos depicting vintage erotica . She had a collection of finery that would make an antique shop blush, but spent most of her young adult life raising other peoples children. She was awash in contradictions

I was putty.
And she knew it.
And I knew that she knew it.




She stood up suddenly and took me by the hand, leading me through stacks of books, and papers and half-drank cups of herbal tea, to the back garden.


She informed me she would gather her dinner while she heard everything that I could possibly catch her up on in a short window.

I kicked off my shoes and sat in a warm patch of grass. She kicked off her shoes, and in one motion stripped of her t-shirt, exposing her shoulders to the last of summer. A perfect gesture. A woman unafraid.

I sat motionless, unable to speak momentarily. I did not live in a world where beautiful women disrobed so casually in front of me. Or maybe I did.

When I did look up, although not all the way- I was caught immediately. Eyes locked, guilty as sin.

And there was that Cheshire grin again. Albeit a little kinder
The tips of my ears went neon.

Sparing me momentarily, she turned to gathering her meal. I sighed silently, and began to tell the story of the previous four years- which reads pretty predictably, and when it was over, I sat, silent for a minute. Before I turned and asked “Where have you been?”

She rattled off the laundry list of countries, cities, adventures before heading into the house briefly and returning with two cold beers. I took it without question, and drank it without complaint. It was awful. And worth it. And when the shadows got long, I showed myself out, and she left me with a kiss burning into my forehead and a sincere “Love you kid.” A woman fully aware of her power, and knowing exactly when tenderness is more appropriate. The perfect gesture.

I heard recently, that people pay a lot of money for her company and advice. And somehow I knew the moment I heard that, she wasn’t a psychiatrist or a lawyer.
And suddenly everything made sense. Everyone is looking for that perfect gesture, and she, knows how to offer it.